The Difference (for Lily)

When your child
Goes into the garden
And removes
Your carefully placed row marker
You yell
“WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN THERE! HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I TOLD YOU?! GET OUT OF THE GARDEN! ”

When your grandchild
Goes into the garden
And removes
Your carefully placed row marker
You coo
“Isn’t that sweet! Look at her! Look at how smart she is! Isn’t she cute! ”